MKAC... this is just thoughts.. of course like you said none of us could know what your T was thinking... so its just guessing

I think he was asking if you had any "thoughts" come up about the abuse... sometimes when we bring stuff up in session we have residuals thoughs just come up about it days.. weeks later...

I also like the idea that he is not cooperating in the conspiracy of silence.... I told my xT some hard stuff and we hardly touched on it you know it was just telling him it existed... and the next weeks he never brought it up.... when out of the emotional hot mess of it all I'm sure he wanted me to bring it up but at the time I felt stupid for telling him and that he didn't think it was important enough to talk about...shame.