What a great thread to bring back !

To all who are still suffering in a mental state of being a victim I am here. I am also a survivor and with that comes alot of stress.
Being stuck in a survivior mode isn't a happy/healthy life.
Noone has a choice of being a victim.
Everyone is different and everyone heals by different means.
Pc offers support, validation, tools and frienship.

From what I have been told professionally, is that you can't undo what has happened to you.

Acceptence on your own terms! allows victims/surviviors to begin to heal and live again. Not by what has happened but who we are today.

This means you begin to have more control/power over how your past has its grip in the present. To move forward with new tools you/me will be able to take life back instead of enduring.
Determined to live life not as a victim or survivior mode but freely.
We are stronger, wiser, insightful creatures and we have purpose.
Happiedasiy