I realized when he asked me the question that I had not thought about it
at all,
AND I was surprised at the question. It was like I was all, 'who, me? Sexually abused? what?'

I REALLY had not thought about it. I emailed him a few minutes ago and just asked what he meant. He is not fond of emails and prefers calls so now I feel badly about THAT as well. I just really hate calling. really.