I think it may have something to do with identity. I think one can get 'stuck' when one's identity gets taken over by the victim (or even survivor) status. I think perhaps this can especially manifest itself in those who already have a shaky sense of identity; for these people, the role of victim/survivor can serve the purpose of providing a solid identity where one is otherwise lacking.
I think it can become a problem when other aspects of ourselves, our multiple roles in life, etc., get pushed aside or far into the background, and so much is seen and experienced through the lens of trauma victim/survivor. I think there's a time for this in the process, but it is possible to get 'stuck' in this role -and I think the diagnosis of PTSD has the potential to feed/propagate identity issues. Perhaps it's important to keep in mind that PTSD is not -necessarily- a life sentence.
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