This holiday is so difficult for me. I hate it and wish it would go away. I am estranged my unhealthy Mother. I do not want to honor her. She is a women who was abused herself and she only knows a few ways to communicate with me. She's emotionally abusive two faced, untrustworthy, mean, negative, unappreciative, drama filled and seems to love gossip and chaos. I can't take it and do not welcome it in my life any longer. Sadly, my brother hasn't had contact with her in more than 10 years. He too is very angry at her. Anyway, I hate this holiday and many people do not understand. I am sick of hearing people tell me- "You only have 1 Mother."
Yes stop reminding me.