I just found out today that my girlfriend of six months got diagonsed with cancer yesterday at the docotor's I am not sure how to deal with the news.

I was stunned like she was, both me and her husband are trying hard to be there for her and be supporitive. I am I want to try to read up on the subject lol seems lame but its what I do when I don't know just what all to do.

I was scared today she was upset and might try hurting herself she has cut her self before in the past. And i just have nto known her for long enough to know how she would be handeling all this but she is taking it well I don't know much about the details of things just yet.

but hopefully will in the future.

All I have wanted to do is tell her how much I care and love her and how much she means to me. I wish I could hold her in my arms.

its all very horryifying to say the least for all of us.