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Originally Posted by Luctor
How do you guys deal with these feelings? Do you turn to your partners for reassurance? Is reassurance ever enough? Does it go away with time?
I'm worried my jealousy will make me forever undatable. Until I get a handle on it, but I don't know if I ever will  |
I can say it is not easy. It doesn't ever really go away. You can find someone, heck I'm married. I can say for me I had to trust even when I felt I couldn't that he would understand certain things that I do and that we'd work on them. Countless fights, arguments, and all later, still married going on 14 yrs now. He just accepts that needy part of me that needs to hear certain things like all the time.
I wish you luck with this. Feel free to message me if you need to really get into issues or anything.
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