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Old May 10, 2013, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted by Antimatter View Post
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If your therapist didn't seek consultation about her countertransference with you, then she was being remiss. You have the same right as she does to seek a second opinion, no matter how she feels about it. Her defensiveness is telling. You are spot on, imo, that she isn't owning her own stuff. I think you are handling this well, and I know that it is painful as hell. I am rooting for you.
Thank you, antimatter. She did seek consultation, and apparently asked the consultant (whom I know is also her friend) if she seemed angry, because I keep feeling as if she is. She told me that the consultant didn't feel as if she was angry either.

Thank you for rooting for me