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Originally Posted by MASIMO
But, when he goes on his month long trips my
fear of feeling alone comes out and I start panicing and feel so vulnerable,
unsafe. This is what I'm feeling right now. I just told him again I loved him
and like a child that I didn't want him to go, and I was mad at him for leaving 
He is used to this from me.
It's about his ability to accept my feelings as I know they do affect him
personally. What should he "do" with my love? |
A t uses his feelings to figure out what's going with the client.
I would be more concerned that you throw the same tantrum every time he goes on vacation, so that you say he's used to it. Over the years, my reaction to my ts trips has been changing.
There is an obvious kind of love we try to give our t which they must and will reject because it is like a bribe, but eventually there will be a much more subtle childlike gentle trusting love you will offer your t. It will be a truer love and really a more adult and equal love. But this demanding isn't it.