A t uses his feelings to figure out what's going with the client.

I would be more concerned that you throw the same tantrum every time he goes on vacation, so that you say he's used to it. Over the years, my reaction to my ts trips has been changing.

There is an obvious kind of love we try to give our t which they must and will reject because it is like a bribe, but eventually there will be a much more subtle childlike gentle trusting love you will offer your t