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Originally Posted by likelife
Well, I'm not sure about wise anymore. I ended up sending my T a final letter last night. I removed the vitriol, though, and tried to give her some feedback about how I wished she had conducted the final session differently. I expressed anger and sadness (without the mean language) that she had allowed our six-year relationship to end so precipitously. I don't know if i'll ever hear from her again. I'm mostly anticipating that I won't.
What you said about your T needing to preserve his image more than your well being exactly mirrors what I feel like my experience is.
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So glad you wrote another letter.if you need to again later on,another final letter, i think thats ok too. You need to get those feelings out.
I wrote several letters to my ex t right after she dumped me.
In fact i wrote her an email a few months ago too even though its been five uears.
Apparently i still had more i needed to say
I never heard back from her ever, of course. I hoped to but never really thought she would write back really. But that says more about her than about me.
Anyway... I am still thinking of you.