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Evening,
I feel the same way about the people I see that have "someone" and I can't find someone. I feel I have to change everything about me so someone will like me and want to be with me. I know I'm fairly attractive and have alot to offer to the right person, so what's the deal I ask myself. I keep getting asked by people "what's wrong with the men down there", I live in Raleigh, NC". How am I supposed to answer that I say to myself.
It feels like because I'm not a Christian, then it will be hard for me to meet a man, or if I don't look a certain way or because I like hockey, how will I find someone like that. Of course you don't have to have everything in common with someone, as long as it's a few things and you enjoy being with that person.
I know a wonderful man, that I've been friends with for 5 years now, and I know he's the only one I want to be with, we get along real well. Maybe partially it is me, I don't get out enough, but the meetup groups I'm in do al ot of happy hour stuff, bars. I like to do more event stuff, like mini golf.
I can't even get someone to go to mini golf with me or something. I need to find a way or get some help to get out of this "rut" i call it. All this not feeling wanted makes me stressed, and we all know stress leads to other things.
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