Ok so at the risk of coming off as a complete idiot, how does one know if someone is trolling or otherwise trying to upset people? and what are you supposed to do? I guess I am not sure I am in much position to judge whether that is going on or I just take things personally and should just stop typing before I bother people.

Is there any way to discuss this with like a moderator instead of having to put all the details in my thread? guess I just want to determine if its me taking things personally or if its really inappropriate trolling that's damaging to the whole forum. Sorry if this thread is in the wrong place or I am going about asking about the issue wrong.

I was thinking I should just leave it alone and just ignore that thread, but if I am not in the wrong by taking it too personally and it is trolling or something I don't want anyone else being upset by it.