Yes, I'm 33. Not what really happened, trying to explain the ways I, or one might, deal with the consequences of tings you did that didn't feel like you did it. Saying that my young brain instinctively came up with either denying (that didn't work cause who'd believe that another boy just like you appeared out of nowhere) or fighting or giving the other person the blame or making them feel guilty, just to kinda 'get away' with whatever happened (in whatever context) that wasn't understood or couldn't be explained. Know what I mean? I always had and still have an excellent relationship with my mother, these were examples x