Darkeyes -....and I bet they are (like limpid pools) ;^)
I just noticed something about Topamax that was reported on CNN/Health. It regards glaucoma potentially as a side effect of Topamax. There have been only 22 reported cases in adults (out of the thousands and thousands of people taking it), but I thought you might like to know. Just watch for abnormally sore and dry eyes. Here is the link:

http://www.cnn.com/2001/HEALTH/condi....ap/index.html

I'm sorry to hear about the trouble with your husband. Us men can be such shits, sometimes.

- Cam