I realize that I can be unbearable at times, dometimes becuz I'm sick and sometimes just cuz. Woke this morn with him yrlling at me re: my spending ventures and stupid me have asked him to be my payee. I truly need an allowance- have probably spent tens of thousands in the last year and half to banks ect..., whoops! I'm scared this will give him a heart attack if I don't quickly build my self=esteem and listen to my instincts and say thank you but No thank you.

Sorry for gripping, but any of you had to have a payee?