Sadly sometimes when we don't listen to what our T is saying (or anyone as far as that goes) they can feel that tough love is the only thing left to get you to come to your senses.

I know they exaggerate at times....but the exaggeration is only a little beyond the truth they speak.

The first thing that hit my thoughts was why in the world would you even try to have a baby through IVF when in a serious low weight condition, either the baby wouldn't survive or it would take every last bit from you & you would be the one that wouldn't survive the child birth. If you are truly serious about the IVF & having a child....then you need to be in the best possible healthy condition....I can tell you from personal experience....having a baby isn't easy & the work involved after they are born is expensive....it not like it's a baby doll you can place in a crib & it doesn't require any care....it's exhausting & if you don't have energy in the first place from having low weight besides I know from personal experience, my low weight didn't help with my logical thinking.....is that really the kind of mother you want to be for your child????

Sometimes we have to make difficult choices in our life. But you are the only one who can set your priorities.