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Originally Posted by anilam
One word- starts with B and ends with an itch.
Gee the only thing I'd regret would be that I have wasted 6 yrs of my time and money on her... Really, sometimes Ts are just awful 
And to join the discussion about seeing two Ts at once- as much as I don't think it would be of any help for me (and in fact for anyone in general- yeah, of coarse there are some exception...  )
A. I thought you'd told her about it. SO she knew.
B. even if she didn't that's not a good enough reason for terminating a client (ask him to choose would be better) and if the T really felt she must terminate you. That's so NOT the way to do it. |
Yeah, I told her that I saw the consultT initially, but not that I'd continued to see her - a lie by omission. And I totally agree with your point B. I think having me choose would have made much more sense. She botched the termination completely.
In our second to last session, when I had told her some of the ways that consultT practiced differently from her, and seemed to better meet my needs, she said at first that she felt sad that she had hurt me. But then later, she admitted that she felt a little humiliated too. I'm pretty sure her defense against that humiliation was to terminate me against my will, but refuse to own that it was her decision.