While - NO - I have not had to have a payee, but I would like to suggest.... that maybe it is time to name another person as your payee if you honestly feel that it is too much for your father to handle, not to mention that having someone else help you here will (and can) help ease the stress on the father daughter relationship that is so important to a girl.

> > > > > > What do YOU think about that ideal?

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))