just about at very end of last session T said something about, "we've tried a lot of things... journaling..." I don't remember what came in the middle because what she finished up with blew me away so completely ... "you don't write notes & bring them in here any more, because you feel so... threatened."

I stared at her and just blinked.

then I reached into my tote bag and pulled out my note pad, and showed her that I did bring notes. She looked startled, and mumbled something like, but you didn't refer to them all this time.
well no i didn't; I didn't need to. I looked over the list and said, and I hit all of them, except for this one about ____ that I decided not to talk about.