Thank you for taking my call this evening for my Dadism (my inability to deal with an irrational human being sharing genes that I had no say in) Why does he feel the need to have power and control over me and my offspring? I called a brother like you suggested, who in turn wanted me to enforce power and control over my kiddo. At least, the brothers are teachable - I think. I only wish I had saved all that extra money I threw around before child, and didn't take a vow of poverty after my divorce. Then I wouldn't need to put my hand out for college tour funds. Dad only effected me intellectually this time, and I'm good.Like I said before I'm good. It was a quick recovery. Soon I will be able to just listen with no effect.