Bless your heart. You're feeling right now, the way I felt when I got divorced. My ex said some mighty hateful things that were ALL LIES, and he even got my family to believe them! I couldn't believe it! My own family! And they hadn't even heard MY SIDE of the story before they actually took his side!

The same with my friends -- not HIS friends, but my school friends!! They ALL DUMPED ME because of him. I never got a chance to talk to them because of his lies! I can't believe he did this. He was always vindictive to a point, but he really went over the line this time.

I had all sorts of terrible thoughts after that. Just hateful, awful thoughts. But after I calmed down, I realized that I was lowering myself to HIS level. And I never wanted to do that!! By doing that, he was winning! I couldn't let him win.

So I took my power back! By taking my power back, he COULDN'T WIN. And not only that, but I retained my dignity and self-esteem. He couldn't hurt me anymore, like he'd hurt me the entire marriage.

Don't let YOUR husband win. Take YOUR power back! I wish you the very best my friend. And God bless you. Hugs, Lee