Hi. I'm new and my name says it all, as was kindly pointed out already lol. So I was hoping for some tips on how to gain self esteem with an incredibly intelligent husband (who really hates stupidity) to compare yourself to. Especially when I have such a bad memory that it has caused huge problems and I have to rely on my phone alarm for daily things, and at least a couple times a day have huge "blonde" moments (ones that even I find stupid)? I have a very hard time not dwelling. Maybe some train of thought examples?? Half of me knows I'm not stupid but I see the half that is. It's really frustrating for someone who used to be very smart to do such stupid things so frequently. I don't get what happened to my intelligence.