I think I will answer this a bit differently... I have most often in the past felt like my life was dictated by trying to make our schedules mesh....which of course usually meant it was ME rushing around to get something done or to be somewhere, and I already have SEVERE anxiety. I have gone out with a few people, and was married to one, who were calming forces, shall I say. And they were a relief.

But its always hard to start dating, even when I can kind of get a sense but not know for sure, if I am about to start seeing a guy who is more like a full-fledged hurricane season again or not. And for me, no thank you.

Otherwise, I miss them scraping snow off of my car, bringing out the trash and the recycling, bringing in the groceries, and switching out lightbulbs. By the way, that list was compiled in my head once I got seperated re: what I missed...I would never give a list like that to some guy I was just dating, ha.