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May 11, 2013, 11:59 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2012
Posts: 161
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Perna's right. You can't compare yourself to your brother. It actually isn't fair to him, either.
Trust me, the older you get, the more you will see of the similarities between the two of you.
I am the youngest of 7 and have a twin who went on to get a medical degree. He struggled for years, but becasue I was so resentful of how I percieved he had been treated as a "favored" child, I wasn't there to help him in his time of stress and need. He could have died...ended his life. Thank God he didn't and we are speaking again, but we can never have those years back.
All of my siblings have struggled, but kept it quiet. Why? Becasue the pressure was on to be "perfect". Your brother is NO different from you. And he is NOT responsible for what other people call him. "Human ca;culator"? Do they even know he's HUMAN?
Please...please. Stop resenting him for being himself. Please...you are robbing yourself, and HIM, of something no mathematical equation or black belt can EVER replace---->YOU...his wonderful, smart, beautiful  ::sister!!!
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