Oh, and when I, being rendered speechless by his comment about the vagina that has been stretched, wrote to him that:

"...the current guy is not that big - let us say I do not remember you but I believe that you would be bigger, as per my vague memory. So he is still able to pull off two coitus acts per rendezvous, always wearing a condom and without objecting to my having given birth three times. So to me that is normal and not enjoying vaginal sex with a woman who has given birth is not normal. There is nothing wrong with that, but please, not with me."