Judging by what he wrote, it sounds like he was just messing around and not meaning any serious harm and only posting because he's unsure of himself as a boyfriend. It's not even comparable to emotional abuse, no way near the ballpark. Because honestly, lots of people joke around with their bf/gf like that and I'd lock my boyfriend in the toilet too just to tease him. I'm sensing a lot of butthurt on the forums tonight.