I can say it is not easy. It doesn't ever really go away. You can find someone, heck I'm married. I can say for me I had to trust even when I felt I couldn't that he would understand certain things that I do and that we'd work on them. Countless fights, arguments, and all later, still married going on 14 yrs now. He just accepts that needy part of me that needs to hear certain things like all the time.

I wish you luck with this. Feel free to message me if you need to really get into issues or anything.