My boyfriend is 22 and I am 23, I am on the pill and we use condoms EVERY time. It gets to the point where I don't want to say no because he get so upset, then I'm not happy... basically no matter what I end up feeling bad! He says it's because it's the only way he can truly express his love for me. I just want to be able to not have sex for a couple of days and not have him complain about us "never having sex" or how I "never want to do it".