I think comparing one life to another is just not helpful. I mean, you really don't know what's going on behind closed doors. People can tell you about their life, but you won't really know until you live under their roof. You'd be surprised how good some people are at hiding things.

Just remember that sui thoughts cling to things like that. Whispering to you that the grass is greener on the other side is one of it's tricks. Don't give up.