Given that this is a psychotherapy forum and we discuss so much going on with our therapists, I think it's perfectly reasonable that a reader would believe this question referred to therapy/therapist.

Maybe the OP could have elaborated more what was the intention of question.

Getting back to topic, I find enmeshment a very interesting concept but I wonder if anyone actually WANTS it or SEEKS it consciously. It would seem to be a bit of 'enslavement' in the sense that the person HAS lost his individuality. idk - just rambling thoughts here.