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Originally Posted by Hellion
Why do we have to fit in the best we can to seem normal? I mean I tend to mask how bad I feel......but it would be impossible for me to seem 'normal' not to mention why should people have to be 'normal' if they aren't?
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Hellion,
I have spent a whole lot of time faking it. I find it to be exhausting. Rather than trying to appear "normal", I stay home. I am retired and I understand there are times you just can't stay home. When I am depressed, I spend as little time as possible interacting with others. I don't even talk on the phone when it is bad. I have learned to love texting.
I have 2 friends whom I've educated on depression. They used to try to coax or cajole me into doing what they wanted. They now realize there are times I need to be alone. It is nice to be able to be honest and have them accept me.
Hang in there,
Sabra