The exact thought I had when I first saw my (now) husband at the age of 14 was, "I could have a crush on him." Yes, like I could control who I had a crush on and that it was about time I actually had a crush. Four years later when we started dating, I believe it was within a few months (6?) that I knew I was going to marry him. I had absolutely NO doubt that I would marry him when he broke up with me.