My situation is almost opposite of yours. I was in complete denial about my Dx for almost 10 years. My husband educated himself and sought therapy in order to better understand me and my needs. I feel lucky and blessed that he hasn't left me. He says that this is God's plan for him and he will love me forever. I am sorry that your husband isn't on the same page as you. Have you thought about having him go with you to see a therapist? Maybe hearing about it from a third party could help? I wish you luck!!