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Originally Posted by DrSkipper
Well, you've also have been posting of your unusually high sexual expectations from men, so why you are shocked to find someone who also has high sexual expectations and you don't fit the bill? He clearly wants someone very specific like you do and you don't meet his expectations. I do agree that this man is coming off as very rude in addition to sounding desperate for a tight p*ssy. This is someone not to pursue so why give it any more thought? Just drop the conversation and ignore the emails. There's other men out there who meet your expectations.
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He wrote that he now has hopes that maybe in the future he will find me "in different circumstances" and that "a guy can always hope".
I responded with a short sweet nothing email that does not obligate me in any way and he stopped writing. So, case closed.
Since he is my former classmate, I am going to leave it at that.
Had he been from a dating site - meaning, someone I would never see again - I would have educated him, explaining that once you say something like this,
no, no, no, you no longer have any hopes, and that is forever. With something like this, you reach a point of no return.
But since he is someone whom I would see in the future, I will leave him uneducated for the rest of his days.
As for being desperate, he at some point complained that what I could possibly offer was "pity sex" and he did not want that. Again, I did not respond - not responding and not engaging was the right way to go since he changed his tune and then stopped writing altogether - but I did think to myself that a person who really does NOT want "pity sex" should at least try not to sound so desperate!