Which unusually high sexual expectations?

I do not even expect oral sex. Nothing, basically.

But I do expect that they be able to carry out a normal act of coitus in a condom and be happy with it.

So, to the extent that this expectation might limit my future options, I am OK with having limited options.

And if there is a way to limit the options even more drastically to the set called "no morons whatsoever", I would gladly limit the options further.