Hi ~ I assume that your girlfriend is an adult, right? Then TREAT HER as an adult! Stop treating her like a little girl. Respect her enough to treat her as a grown woman!

You say you "trust" her -- well, if you trust her, then trust her enough to know that she's smart enough to be able to make it on her own! Good grief, she's not a 2 yr old. Why don't you trust her? It's obvious that you don't or you wouldn't be insistiing on hearing from her "once or twice an hour" which is absolutely ridiculous!!!

Once a day is more than enough! But making her call/text you once or twice an hour is obsessive and shows that you DON'T trust her at all. She's probably sick of it. I know I would be!

Leave her alone. Let her have a life, for heavens sakes. You're just driving her away by insisting on this. Best of luck & take care. Hugs, Lee