I have talked with her about this. She does not have a problem with it. im the one with a problem. i do not like the way i feel about this. I am the one who suffers from it. if she has to go and do something for a while, im the one who suffers. i am looking for help for me to keep from feeling all anxious when we don't talk for extended times.

We have already talked about this, and it is not hurting her. i just hate the feeling of how I'm so paranoid about it. And not to mention that we have a D/s relationship, so she does not mind checking in with me at all. its only the times when she can not talk to me that i have the problems.

i sorry to say but you "advice" did nothing but to put me in a worse mood.