I don't pay my T to be endearing with him, I pay him to be me (good AND bad)- unlike the real life where I'm noticing others needs/wants and trying to fullfil them... i don't have to do that in therapy. Please, don't take it personally. A good T should not be saying things like that.

Plus I had my share of tantrums while in therapy, when I commented on it, saying I acted like a spoiled brat, my T replied No, not now at least: