Been reading this thread LeeAnn, I think you are doing a great job in asking questions and working on things.

I have an older sister who thinks her husband is ADHD-- she's an elementary school teacher and sees her husband's behavior in some of her students. Years ago she would say that her husband is just immature and he'll grow out of it. (they never worked on things like you two are)..... well... he's still the same person 30 years later!

She's went through some horrible messes that he's made, she even was hospitalized with clinical depression at one point. She just kept hoping that he'd "mature"---wouldn't talk about the problems let alone work on them.

Good for you working on things!
Don't forget to give yourself some "kudos"!

LMo-

mandy