My wife has a friend who is a trigger for me. Its so bad that divorce was almost certain for awhile but things died down. To make a long story short her friend told others some confidential information that my wife had told in good faith. Now everytime I hear this womans name I become filled with rage. And now she is applying for a job that would put her side by side with my wife. If this happens I will most certainly make it so hard on my wife that she quits the job or quits me. Any advice please and im sorry im not a great speller. lol if that is even a word............