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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl
I don't think it's fair to resent your husband. People fight, end of. It's how we deal with things after we fight that is important.
If your mother was really mad at your husband and wanted nothing more to do with him, then she still could have a relationship with you. She could tell you that you are welcome at her home without her husband, or come to visit you when he is out. But no, am afraid she is punishing you instead - and your children.
This is not your husbands fault. She is in charge of her own actions, as tough as it sounds.
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I have to admit, you are right on. I know these things are true. I just think that because of how she has dealt with significant issues in her past she doesn't know how to behave. She never knew how to communicate and never will. So I know she will stay away. It's just ridiculous. I also know deep down that even if my husbands tone was fresh towards her, he was in the right. Oh good grief would she hate to hear that. I think I even told her that, right Fter the argument and she stayed quiet or tried taing over me.
My husband even has said to me" what did you do to her? you had nothing to do with it" I guess she doesn't see it that way.