Hey Aveiw! I am double-bi too : ). My sexuality is not episodic like Trippin's though. I have been married (also to a man) and completely faithful for more than a decade! If I were (sadly) to ever not be in a relationship w/ my husband, I would date girls first but be open to anyone that i fell for. My husband is totally aware of this and just fine with it.

As far as the periods of interest/disinterest in your guy...I find that I am that way in general. I do notice hot girls more when I am hypo but I have more sexual energy anyhow...so it is natural that it would be magnified and toward women. My husband sees beautiful girls and looks, too. I don't mind (as long as he is respectful about it!!!). I think that when you stop appreciating beauty, life loses its luster and I want to try to keep that magic alive.

Is it possible that what your experiencing is just a waking up of feelings that lie latent sometimes? If so, try not to sweat it! Your feelings are what they are, you cannot control them...but you can look for a pattern and see if it is just an occasional interest (when hypo/manic) or if it is more frequent.

I hope you find the answers you are looking for! Cheers and dare i say Bi-bi, lol?