Im in college right now, in fact im more busy then she is. part of the reason i worry about her is because she doesn't have a job or go to school or anything. i cant volunteer because i live with my grampa and he always has stuff for me to do around the house and shop. i really need a job, it would be the best thing. it would take up more of my free time and i would get paid. in fact right now at this moment my girlfriend is at walmart getting a job offer, we will see how that goes. i wouldn't worry too much about stifling her, because of the way our relation works. we are very open and honest with each other, and besides im her "daddy" if that makes sense. we have an agreement where she does what i tell her without question. in fact that is how she wanted it, its part of who she is. i only worry when she cant tell me what is going on.