I think it's all about responses to what comes our way. Can't any of us control our genes/the package we're born with or that we "give" when we have children. Looked at that way, it's almost arrogant to feel responsible, what if you got the tendency to be depressed from your grandmother's sister or something? Not yours in the first place. We have good things happen to us and bad things and they're not anyone's "fault" but, as individuals, we have the responsibility for our own responses but not that of others, even our children. We can't "make" another feel a certain way.

(((Tita)))