Jannie, sometimes when people offer us some advice or try to help us in some way, it sounds as if they don't care, but that's far from the truth most of the time. The way I see it, it's like when a mother is trying to teach her toddler how to stand on his own or to take a step or two. She will hold her baby's hand for a while but soon, she starts letting go so the child can get his own bearings and learn to stand without help. After all, isn't that what we're all trying to learn here, to stand on our own?

Just offering a different perspective. I hope it helps.




<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>