I agree with you _Sky -- it's just strange that he really doesn't seem as though he has much control over it.

One of my best friends told me yesterday that she has yelled a couple of times in her life, and it was scary how the floodgates really opened once she started yelling. She knew that she wasn't making any sense and that she wasn't being fair, but it's almost like it was too late once she let loose. She said she's very careful not to let herself go down that path now. She's a good 15 years older than my H is, so that was somewhat heartening.