Thanks pamelasu..I am glad someone heard me.
Guess nothing like a movie to trip one out. And then all I could hear was what the T was trying to suggest and he just would not "hear" me that my dad never did anything wrong to me. He actually refused to believe me which left this issue hanging for years because my experience and knowledge was not validated by the T. I guess I just needed to scream from the rooftops that my dad never harmed me, molested me, or hurt me in any way.. and I was heard and validated.. ty