Some do, Wolfie, but most well-educated and mature people don't (in my experience).

One reason some may see us as weak, Wolfie, is that we might have an overly severe conscience which inhibits our reacting to situations in a negative way that someone who has less conscience would respond to very strongly. The balance of moods may be difficult because of that.

I once had to lash out at a defense attorney in a lawsuit in which I was the victim
and my insurance company (who covered all the expenses, etc., on my uninsured
motorist coverage) sued the young, uninsured driver to recover over $63,000. they paid for
my hospitalization and surgery and recovery. I almost fainted after I left the courtroom from the stress of having to discipline the attorney so strongly. So for those of us who have a very strong conscience, we might appear to be weak to others.

Then, too, we have to recognize that bipolar patients, particularly those who are
intellectually gifted are often born with extreme sensitivity to almost everything and
everybody. (You should read Pearl Buck's description of the artist for a clear understanding of what sensitivity is.)

Those are two reasons some in the general public might think of us as weak.

Life's experiences will make us strong in the long run if we can weather the
"thousand slings and arrows" that life throws at us--in Shakespeare's words.

If you just remember that you were created by God and God doesn't make mistakes,
you'll be feeling better.

In addition, please remember that when people talk they are talking about themselves.
That helps us to understand who is weak and who isn't.

Real strength requires gentleness; some don't know or understand that. If you are
a gentle person, chances are you are very strong or will be as you live with that
trait dominant in your character.

Finally, anything violent never lasts; it's the ultimate in weakness. Strength is calm, often
quiet, and very alert and attentive,as well as protective.