Child porn is not legal. Getting caught with it will jeopardize his career in the military, his possible pension, his honorable discharge, etc. He could get a lifelong label of sexual offender.
Children are harmed so that he and others can satisfy their desires.
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"they ( teenage girls) ask for the attention by dressing up in provocative clothing & makeup, they know what their doing!"
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This is a standard comment made by sexual harrassers/abusers to attempt to justify their inappropriate behavior.
This degree of interest in teenagers is not normal for men of his age.
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I find this very disturbing
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Have you told him that you find this all disturbing? What is his response?
Recalling that we cannot expect to change other people with whom we interact, I think you will find that he will continue this sort of behavior throughout your relationship.
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I need to know if besides what I have wrote, are their signs I should look out for ?
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I think you are right: what you wrote already constitutes signs to "look out for". Plenty of them in my view.